Monthly Archives for November 2011

My problem is that I’m just now struggling with my sexuality

Nov 30, 2011 Q: My problem is that I’m just now struggling with my sexuality. I’ve had one relationship in the past. It did happen to be with a woman but I don’t think it was a traditional “meet someone attraction” relationship. We were best friends that ended up becoming sexual. I really think we […]

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How do I begin to stop the Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell type stalemate with my mother

Nov 30, 2011 Q:I came out to my mother nearly at 18 after she indirectly asked me if I was dating a college friend. I was and currently am dating this same girl now. My mother did not take the news of my sexuality well despite years of me being a tomboy. As a religious […]

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What’s wrong with me? Why am I not allowed to be happy?

Nov 30, 2011 Q: I have some problems with my mom. I am out to everyone in my family except my dads side of the family. They really hurt my brother and disowned him when he came out. My dad knows I’m gay but doesn’t know about my girlfriend. My mom uses that against me, […]

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I feel like I have lost her my best friend

Nov 30, 2011 Q:I recently discovered my feelings for woman and have always dated men. I recently met a great woman who I was not sure exactly what my feelings were for her. I knew she was my best friend but thought I was feeling more. A recent weekend away with other friends, (We all […]

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How do I get her to accept me for who I am?

Nov 30, 2011 Q: I am a lesbian who came out about 4 months ago but my mom completely disowned me and says I’ll burn in hell how do I get her to accept me for who I am? A: Dear Disowned, I am sorry to hear that your mother has been so traumatized by […]

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I have a friend who has a young daughter who is having gender questions

Nov 30, 2011 Q: I have a friend who has a young daughter who is having gender questions. She has always wanted to dress like a boy, she has 3 brothers. They always aloud her, but now she is angry all the time, they have found notes she has written saying she hates herself and […]

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