Monthly Archives for March 2013

I am enlightened by Chely’s book

Q: I am enlightened by Chely’s book Like Me, and yet I am overwhelmed with immense sadness by it. I am 46. I have never been with a man. I have been with one woman, but it felt so wrong. Yet, the longer I watch days of my life go by, the more I feel […]

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How do I as a straight man help my best friend?

Q: How do I as a straight man help my best friend & her family get through a terrible problem back when the son was 13? I sorry that I’m holding things back but I believe it’s up to the parent’s who should tell the story. His mother & father are too proud to seek […]

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I have known that I was gay ever since…

Q: what do i do? I have known that I was gay ever since the 5th grade. I was grown up in a christian family and my mother and my siblings are openly against gay people. In fact she told my siblings and i that if we ever dated people of the same gender she’d […]

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My daughter came out to us in her senior year of college

Q: My daughter came out to us in her senior year of college. Crying and Crying I asked her if she was sick, or had cancer and when she finally could speak and said she was gay, both her father and I just said “Thank goodness”. Soon after she graduated she move to Berlin Germany. […]

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I’m scared to come out

Q: I’m scared to come out. I’ve struggled the last few years dealing with acceptance of myself, understanding, denial etc. You know how it is. But I’ve reached the point where I can’t keep it inside anymore; this secret is eating away at me and I’ve become so aggresive and short tempered with people. My […]

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