LIKEME®’s Goals

LIKEME®’s mission is to support the LGBTQ+ community.  During this COVID-19 pandemic, connection through community centers has been limited.  LIKEME.org would like our website to serve as an online presence where viewers can connect to the LGBT community.  We will publish LGBT news or events of interest to the community, and are now developing an interactive forum where viewers can add their personal story, find resources, or let us know of items of interest to the community.

Supreme Court rulings and a climate that is more supportive of equal rights were cited as factors driving an increase in the percentage of people who identified as other than heterosexual in a Gallup poll.

The Washington Post reports that a Gallup survey released January 24 has found that more adult Americans are identifying as LGBT, a shift that pollsters see as driven, at least in part, by people in younger generations who are more likely to consider themselves to be something other than heterosexual.

The poll found that 5.6 percent of adults identified as lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender, rising from 4.5 percent in 2017, the last time Gallup reported an annual update. The poll also found that more than half of L.G.B.T. adults identified as bisexual.


Obituary of Thomas B Sommerkamp

Thomas Buckley “Buck” Sommerkamp, 55, passed away on Sunday, January 31, 2021, after winning a battle with cancer by showing the disease what bravery, determination, and integrity look like.  There are many charitable organizations Buck was involved in, but he designated a few for those wishing to make donations: KyMel (kymel.org), a summer camp for children with cancer; the Prostate Network (prostatenetwork.org), which he produced podcasts for, the Reformation Project (reformationproject.org), dedicated to advancing inclusion in the church; and the Kansas City Center for Inclusion (inclusivekc.org), of which he is a former board member.


Kansas City Creates First LGBTQ Commission

Local LGBTQ activists and Kansas City leadership joined together to create Kansas City’s and Missouri’s first Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans and Queer Commission (LGBTQC). Ordinance 200907 passed out of Legislative Session Thursday, December 17th during the City Council’s last meeting of 2020.  Co-Sponsored by Councilman Eric Bunch and Councilwoman Andrea Bough, this LGBTQ+ Commission was created in collaboration with over 60 local LGBTQ organizations who provided feedback and insight to policy authors and advocates Justice Horn and Crissy Dastrup. These organizations are already playing an integral role, providing recommendations for Commission leadership focused on diversity and representation within the LGBTQIA Community.

This Commission is the first of its kind in the state of Missouri and will further empower the LGBTQ+ community with a focused seat at the table in local government. Kansas City, Missouri Mayor Quinton Lucas will appoint seven members who specialize in policies such as housing, public safety, health care and education, as well as six members from each district to provide a geographically diverse voice for the LGBTQ+ community in legislative actions from City Hall. On December 21st, from 4 p.m. – 5:15 p.m., a virtual event and press conference was held featuring those who spearheaded the legislation, a presentation of the Ordinance to UMKC’s GLAMA (Gay and Lesbian Archives of Mid-America), and a virtual performance by the Heartland Men’s Chorus commemorating this historic moment. Following the press conference, the Kansas City skyline lit up with rainbow colors in support of our LGBTQ+ Community.

This formally-appointed Commission will help broaden the perspectives of those presently serving in City government. Councilman Eric Bunch from the 4th District says, “When I think of the brave people who fought in the Stonewall Uprising, proving that the Queer community deserved to live their lives openly and safely, I think of the brave people who refused to be silenced during the early days of the AIDS pandemic, demanding healthcare, research, and progress in fighting the virus that killed so many of their community. I think of many right here in this community who have been fighting for equal protection for decades.” He continued saying, “Forming the KCMO LGBTQ commission is just the next step in creating more spaces for your voices to be given a platform for lasting, meaningful change in this community. We must keep pushing on. I’m proud to have sponsored this historic legislation. The queer community spoke up to ask for more representation, and I’m proud to say that City Council listened. We must continue fighting for our disenfranchised communities. I am very appreciative to my colleagues who supported this.” The City values enacting legislation, policies, programs, procedures or administrative actions that advance social, economic and political equality for the LGBTQ+ community and believes incorporating those ideas will make the City a better place. The Commission will provide the LGBTQ+ Community an opportunity to play a productive role within the City. “It was my honor to work with CM Bunch, Justice Horn and Crissy Dastrup to help craft this important ordinance. While Kansas City has taken many early steps to enact legislation to counter discrimination, we must ensure that those in the LGBTQ+ community not only have a voice in how we continue to shape legislation, but have a seat at the table when those decisions are made. Our efforts to do so do not stop here. We must ensure that all those who feel marginalized and whose voices are not represented are heard and that our legislation and policy reflect equitable principles” said 6th District Councilwoman Andrea Bough.

The authors of this ordinance looked to the ‘LGBTQ Capital of the South’, Atlanta, Georgia, for a working model to glean from. Atlanta Mayor Keisha Lance Bottoms constituted their LGBTQ Commission in 2018. Their 34-member body makes recommendations to the Mayor that help shape their City’s policies and engagement with Atlanta’s LGBTQ communities. They have appointed the City’s first full-time LGBTQ Affairs Coordinator and strengthened ties to law enforcement and public safety departments through 5 liaisons across Atlanta PD, the Fire Department, and the Department of Corrections. Additionally, they have seen success through educating the public and providing housing to houseless LGBTQ youth. Crissy Dastrup, Legislative Aide to Councilman Bunch and local community advocate said, “Atlanta saw out-of-state investment jump by 45% in the LGBTQ Community after they formed their Commission. The City benefits when we empower people to serve and advocate for their communities. When community members come to the table ready and willing with a clear vision and plan, asking to serve, we should embrace that. And yes, that means all communities.”

Proponents said the commission will give lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and gender queer residents a voice in City Council decisions and an opportunity to work on policies. The Commission is meant to advise the City Council on issues affecting the LGBTQ community, including economic opportunities, health, safety and quality of life. This commission is the first LGBTQ Commission in the state of Missouri and it’s an opportunity for the city of Kansas City, Missouri to lead in a state with no state-wide LGBTQ protections. “This is our opportunity to lead as a city, to have more voices at the table, and to work to make sure this community is safer for everyone – especially our queer communities of color. We don’t compromise on LGBTQIA+ representation and rights. Ever.” said Justice Horn.

THANK YOU to the Gay and Lesbian Archives of Mid-America (GLAMA), Mid-America LGBT Chamber of Commerce, Truman Medical Center, Kansas City Passages, Empowering Queer Activists and Leaders (EQUAL), LGBTQIA Center of Inclusion, Kansas City Anti-Violence Project, KC Care Clinic, Thrive Health Connection, PerformOUTKC, KC Public Library Youth Services, The Tenth Voice, The Transgender Institute, Missouri GSA Network, Metropolitan Community Colleges, UMKC LGBTQIA Programs/Services, KU Center for Sexuality and Gender Diversity, PFLAG of Kansas City, Kansas City Coalition for Welcoming Ministries, Center of Spiritual Living, Muslims for Progressive Values, Congregation Kol Ami, Spirit of Hope Metropolitan Community Church, GLSEN of Kansas City, Human Rights Campaign of Kansas City, Heartland Men’s Chorus, International Gay & Lesbian Travel Association, Camp Magazine, The Vital VOICE, Hope Care Center, SAVE Inc, University of Missouri – Kansas City, Park University, Rockhurst University, Avila University, AIDS Service Foundation, Midwest Rainbow Research Institute, SURG KC, Black Rainbow, KC Chamber of Commerce, PROMO, BlaqOut KC, KC Diversity Coalition, Pride Haven, KC Gay Latinx, KC Bear Mafia, Latinx Thrive Health Connection, Northland Pride, KC Transformations, Brown Voice/Brown Voice, St. Luke’s LGBTQ Health, Austin Strassle, KC Stonewall Sports, Jolie Justus, Ashleigh Manlove, Black Pockets LLC – Zeke’s Freedom Foundation, Greg Razer, UMKC LGBTQIA Faculty/Staff Association, Kansas City Public Schools, and Save Inc.


New Leader Named for Nation’s Largest LGBTQ+ Organization

Joe Hollendoner

The Los Angeles LGBT Center, the nation’s largest LGBTQ+ organization, has chosen Joe Hollendoner of the San Francisco AIDS Foundation as the successor to CEO Lorri L. Jean.

Jean had announced in September that she will retire in July 2022, when she will have been at the center for 25 years. Hollendoner will join the organization as executive director July 6 and work with Jean until her retirement a year later, when he will become CEO.

The LA LGBT center, founded in 1969, now has nearly 800 employees and offers medical and mental health services, legal services, housing, advocacy programs, and services tailored to the needs of specific populations within the LGBTQ+ community, such as seniors, youth, and transgender people. It has multiple locations in the Los Angeles area, including Hollywood, Leimert Park, Boyle Heights, Koreatown, and West Hollywood. It is larger than 95 percent of all nonprofit organizations in the U.S.  Jean served as the center’s executive director from 1993 to 1999 and returned as CEO in 2003.


Biden overturns ban on transgender people serving in the U.S. military

President Joe Biden on Monday overturned a controversial ban by his predecessor on transgender individuals serving in the U.S. military, a move that fulfills a campaign promise and will be cheered by LGBTQ advocates.

President Biden believes that gender identity should not be a bar to military service, and that America’s strength is found in its diversity,” the White House said in a statement.

Allowing all qualified Americans to serve their country in uniform is better for the military and better for the country because an inclusive force is a more effective force. Simply put, it’s the right thing to do and is in our national interest,” it said.

Former Democratic President Barack Obama in 2016 allowed trans people to serve openly and receive medical care to transition genders, but Republican President Donald Trump froze their recruitment while allowing serving personnel to remain.

Jan. 25 (Reuters) – (Reporting Idrees Ali & Jeff Mason; Editing Doina Chiacu & Chizu Nomiyama)


LIKEME® Internship Program

An Internship Program will replace the 2021 scholarship awards.  The successful intern is a psychology student at Avila College in Kansas City, Missouri, who will assist our organization with social media, and outreach. The Scholarship Program will announce when it is once again accepting scholarship applications.


LIKEME® Scholarship Awards

For more information on previous LIKEME scholarship awards, additional information can be found here.


We invite you to support The LIKEME® Organization’s work for LGBT individuals through a donation.

We are a 501(c)3 charity. We rely on the public to provide support to our organization. Our easy-to-use donation process is secure and we do not store your credit card information.


error: Content is protected !!